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Let me start this off by saying that I am so, so sorry it has been over a year since I have written on here but I have a very unique story behind this that I hope you will enjoy.
Over the past year, I sort of had a falling out with J-Pop.
We had a very lovely relationship for over two years, we fell in love on a very lovely spring day. It was just perfect. If I had a rough day, she was always there to cheer me up if I was feeling blue and I felt like nothing would tear us apart.
I even got to visit her parents on vacation every year since we first started out but I felt like I was just going through the motions every time I would visit her at home or at work. I never really felt all there.
In the fall of last year, I hopped on a dating app and decided to see who else was out there. I of course hid this all from the love of my life, but it wasn't easy.
I came across this profile on there and she looked really cool. She must have been really popular because she had a lot of vacation pictures with various groups of people,both guys and girls.
She drew my attention and I decided to send her a DM (Direct Message) to just get to know her a little more.
That girl is named K-Pop (Korean Pop).
After a couple of great conversations I slowly but surely started to have feelings for her.
One evening, my love J-Pop discovered our messages and I new our gig was up.
When she found out about my feelings for K-Pop, we had a very constructive discussion about where to go from there so we both decided to maybe take a little break from each other, see other people, you get the gist.
At that point I decided to leave my good relationship behind with such a lovely lady to move on to someone bigger and better that could improve my status.
At the end of our lovely and heart breaking conversation, J-Pop told me that if my feelings change, that she would always welcome me back into her loving arms and we could start our relationship anew.
I gladly thanked her for her lovely words and didn't really make a promise but deep inside I knew that just maybe the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
I called up K-Pop and told her my whole situation and I asked her out and she said that she would love to go out with someone like myself. She said she would treat me nice and give me more happiness and love than J-Pop ever did.
I shouldn't have listened to her.
While I heard, she (K-Pop), was a good person and all, there were also rumors that she was a gold digger.
I decided not to listen to those rumors and decided to start a new relationship and never look back.
The first few months were fantastic. We would go on dates to restaurants or we would go to the club and dance to our jams but over the course of time, some of her bad habits started to show.
She started to become super clingy. She always wanted me to go buy her this or get her that because if I did that she would love me more.
Since, I was such awe struck by someone as popular and a head turner as she was, I gave into her time after time.
She even invited me to visit her family and I gladly accepted. I took that trip with the hopes that she would not be like this when she is in her home country.
I told her that I needed to pick up some things from my former love's house so I told her I would meet her at her house and she told me that that would be just fine.
When I went to my ex's place, it felt sort of empty. It didn't feel like it used to for some reason. Maybe it was because I was seeing someone else, but maybe it was because I missed her so much.
I happened to walk into her favorite place, the music store, just so I could reminisce about the good times and just hope not to run into her.
As I walked through the store, I looked up and saw a familiar face. She (J-Pop) was there looking at a new release CD of one of the groups I knew she liked. I got real nervous and decided not to approach her but as I tried to leave, she called my name.
I was taken aback by this action and slowly turned around to see her smiling and waving at me. I wandered over to her and we had a little chat about why I was there and if everything was going alright with my new relationship.
I told her everything was going just fine but I think she knew it wasn't.
I asked her how she was and she said that it was going just fine. She had just come to visit her family for a little bit after the split.
I became curious about what she was holding and she showed me the new album that she was looking at.
I asked her if she remembered the first time we both listened to their first album together and how we both loved it. She said she would never forget the look on my face after hearing those lovely voices, just the joy on my face on that day, made her more happy than anyone else ever has.
We ended our conversation with a very awkward handshake/hug thing (kind of like a bro hug). As I left that place I couldn't help but think about her the remainder of my vacation to my new girl's country.
My new girl's family treated me very well and took great care of me when I needed it. K-Pop changed in front of her family and I had hoped it was for the best but as soon as we got back here in the states, things went back to the way they were.
She knew I didn't have a great paying job but still constantly asked for money at every twist and turn.
It started to get real annoying so I decided to contact my ex and tell her what has been going on and if she was available to meet up and talk.
J-Pop took a day or two to respond but she said that she was back in the states and would gladly meet me for a chat later that weekend.
As I sat waiting on her in that cafe, I wondered if I should just break up with K-Pop and ask J-Pop to take me back. I came to the realization that I had it better with J-Pop.
She arrived looking all lovely and we had a great discussion about what was going on and how I should go about this situation and she gave me some great advice and told me to talk to K-Pop about it.
One evening just recently, I had to sit her down and tell her how I truly felt. I told her that I didn't like her using me just for my money and how I didn't like how she became clingy. I ended the conversation by saying that we needed to break up. She of course told me that I would never find someone like her and that since I wasn't that rich I wasn't able to spoil her like most other guys would.
When she left my house, I picked up my phone to call J-Pop to tell her how what happened and asked if she would come over for a moment. She gladly agreed and shortly there after arrived at my place, asking what I needed to say to her.
I told her how much I truly loved her and how happy I was with her being in my life and that nothing will ever break us apart ever again.
We both shared an amazing hug and maybe a peck on the cheek and started our relationship anew.
I truly love her with all my heart and soul and I will and won't ever forget what she (J-Pop) has done in my life for the greater good.
I honestly hope you enjoyed reading this very strange love story between a man and a genre of music. No joke this is kind of a true story.
Anyways, I am back to writing and I really wish you come back next week for an idol introduction article.
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